I consider myself a pretty compassionate person. I have helped and nurtured many folks in my 31 years. And I am so humbled in many ways for these experiences.
What I have discovered in this vein is when to halt my action or when to let go to make due for themselves; to be self-sufficient. When does compassion become enabling? When does helping others discouraging others from discovering new things about themselves? This is an on-going theme that surrounds my sphere of influence.
This easily brings up the idea of the obligation to provide your own kin things they want. Also, parental obligation rings high in this vein. We want the best for others--- for our mothers and fathers, sons and daughters, friends and perhaps our acquaintances, and strangers. But where do we draw the line? That is the question.
People want what they want. And getting what they want will bring them happiness. Well, what do I have to do with their happiness? Everything.
And perhaps, nothing.
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